Familly

This is one of those feeding concerns that sounds light when parents first say it, sometimes even accompanied by a nervous laugh. “He eats perfectly for his dad.” “She finishes lunch with grandma but refuses everything with me.” “At daycare they say he eats so well. At home? Complete disaster.” But underneath that laugh, there’s usually something much heavier: hurt, frustration, and sometimes even resentment. Because what many parents are really asking is: Why does my child cooperate with everyone else… but not me? And that question can feel deeply …